Greetings
The people of Argentina typically greet one another with a single or a double kiss on the right cheek, depending on the region. Two kisses are considered the norm in the capital city, Buenos Aires, and the major cities.
It is also polite to shake hands when greeting people and to always introduce yourself with the proper titles such as Señor, Señora, Señorita, and Doctor.
Handshakes
As in most South American countries, Argentines may affectionately greet friends with a kiss on the right or left cheek. However, wait until someone initiates the kiss before making any physical contact. Handshakes are a standard professional greeting, but with close friends and family, kisses on both cheeks will usually suffice.
When meeting someone for the first time, ensure your hand is slightly dry and warm – moist hands are a turn-off! Also, remember that Argentineans like to keep eye contact throughout the entire process of greeting one another. It is considered very respectful if you can do this while shaking hands. Finally, remember to smile while introducing yourself – Argentinians take pride in equally welcoming friendship and business acquaintances. Generally speaking, handshakes tend to be moderate in pressure with a brief duration, only lasting 2–3 seconds; however, family members and close friends may linger longer or engage in a hug or kiss, depending on familiarity levels.
Kissing
Greetings in Argentina are generally demonstrative, often including a kiss or embrace. Adults from the same gender may kiss both cheeks when meeting and leaving, while opposite sexes will also embrace and/or kiss one cheek. Depending on the country’s region, it is common to shake hands when greeting someone for the first time, especially among adults of the same gender.
When greeting family members and well-known people, Argentinians usually hug each other by throwing their arms around one another’s necks and making bubbly noises. Younger generations are now opting out of this usual behavior in favor of the more formal handshake. However, they tend to linger much longer than necessary while touching each other’s shoulders or hands. Additionally, friends may greet one another by brushing their lips against each other’s cheeks without departing from a hug.
Argentinians (especially from rural areas) also have unique forms of friendly salutations that express celebration upon meeting someone and admiration for something impressive or remarkable about them. They make use of proverbs. Animal sounds or particular phrases vary according to the region and are widely applied among older generations but unfamiliar among younger ones.
Use of Titles
In Argentina, titles are significant and should be used when introducing yourself and others and engaging in conversation. It is proper for men to be addressed as “Señor” (Mr.) and women to be addressed as “Señora” or “Señorita” (Mrs. or Miss). However, it is increasingly common to address people by their first name or even just a name abbreviation. It is more common in formal settings such as work environments than in the company of friends or family.
When conversing with someone with a doctorate, they can be referred to as “Doctor/Doctora” (Doctor). Although not necessary, it is appropriate to use the title of respect, such as “Don/Doña,” before a person’s last name when speaking formally.
Communication
In Argentina, communication is direct, but there is also an expectation of politeness and respect. Argentinians may take any social interaction or conversation as an opportunity to build relationships. Eye contact is important and should always be maintained with the speaker. Avoid using vulgar language, particularly in public or when talking to someone of the opposite sex.
Tone of Voice
When communicating in Argentina, paying attention to the tone of voice is essential. It is not acceptable to express anger or strong emotions using strong language. Instead, Argentinians prefer a more respectful and polite manner of communication, which includes soft tones and well-structured sentences.
Your choice of words will also be important when talking to people in Argentina. The Argentinian Spanish language is quite distinct from other Latin American countries, so foreigners need to use the correct phrases and words. It would help to look up any phrases you might find difficult before speaking or writing them correctly. Generally speaking, Argentine people take great pride in their sense of formality and a relaxed attitude that can make conversations more charming and emotional compared with other cultures.
As well as respecting your tone of voice when communicating, it is also crucial for non-Argentines to understand the non-verbal cues that Argentinians commonly use, such as:
- Hand gestures
- Facial expressions
- Body proximity
- Touching
- Silence as response
As Argentinian culture widely prizes personal relationships more than task-orientated ones, interpersonal connections should be nurtured through informal social events such as meals or activities over strict business lunches or dinners.
Eye Contact
Eye contact is an important part of communication in Argentina. Maintaining eye contact throughout the conversation is considered a sign of respect and interest.
In Western cultures, women may be uncomfortable maintaining eye contact for extended periods due to cultural restrictions on women’s behavior; however, in Argentina, it is considered unusual not to maintain constant eye contact. It implies that you are not interested or do not take the speaker seriously; therefore, it is important to maintain direct and consistent eye contact during conversations in Argentina.
Additionally, Argentinians tend to stand slightly closer than people from other parts of the world when conversing. However, it is important to remember that this does not indicate aggression or invasion of personal space; rather, it is customary for Argentines to feel comfortable standing quite close when conversing with others – even those they have just recently met – as it conveys interest while simultaneously establishing a sense camaraderie and connection.
Use of Gestures
Gestures are a fundamental form of communication in Argentina and integral to the culture. Argentines use gestures more than words at times, so you must understand a few key gestures when visiting or doing business in Argentina.
A nod of the head is considered an affirmative gesture in Argentina while shaking your head from side to side means no. Argentineans will often smile when speaking with someone and nod when they are listening or sympathizing with what you are saying. It is also common for more expressive individuals to motion with their hands to get their point across.
Argentines also have joint hand motions used to convey ideas or emotions. Here are some of the most common:
- The thumbnail can be dragged across the index finger to suggest something mundane.
- Rubbing one’s thumb against one or several fingers symbolizes money and wealth.
- Pointing one’s finger at another person might signify warning, anger, threat, or challenge.
- Wagging your index finger between two people suggests mediation between them.
- Flipping the thumb over a closed fist in the direction of someone indicates that they should leave.
- Patting someone on the back implies comfort or congratulations.
It’s important not to mimic all these behaviors without understanding their true meaning, as they could be misinterpreted by locals and taken offensively. If you do not understand gestures during a conversation, ask politely for clarification, as most Argentines will be happy to explain them further.
Dining
Argentina has many dining customs, which are important to note when visiting the country. For instance, it is considered good manners to arrive on time for a dinner invitation, and it is usually polite to greet the host with a gift such as a bottle of wine or a box of chocolates.
Furthermore, the traditional way to begin a meal is with a toast or a speech given by the guest of honor. It is also expected that everyone joins in the toast before eating.
Table Manners
When dining in Argentina, it’s important to remember to use the appropriate etiquette. Pay attention to general table manners and cultural customs when dining out to avoid causing any embarrassment or giving offense.
Table manners are not too formal in Argentina, but you should still exhibit some manners as a sign of respect. Some general etiquette tips include:
- always coming on time
- avoiding talking with food in your mouth and drinking with your right hand
- Not beginning eating until everyone has been served.
- avoiding picking up or moving food around your plate while eating
- Never put an empty spoon back into the serving dish – it is considered distasteful.
- If you want more of something, wait for someone else to ask for a second helping – a sign that asking for more is acceptable – before doing so yourself.
Always ask permission before taking food items from the serving dishes that might be passed around at tables, and make sure to thank both servers when done eating. When speaking with elders, make sure to put your hands together first to show respect for their position. It’s also polite to accept whatever is offered regardless if you want it or not, as this indicates that you do not want to offend people by refusing their hospitality efforts.
In terms of paying the bill, whoever invited or organized the meal will generally pay while indicating they are grateful for others who took part in dinner with them – if no one pays attention, then split it evenly among everyone at the table.
Toasting
Toasting is a common practice among Argentinians on many social occasions. It is considered a polite gesture and a sign of respect between friends, family, and colleagues. The traditional toast involves raising your glass at arm’s length, preferably higher than others, and saying “Salud” (Health). It should be followed with a clink of glasses before lowering your glass for the first sip.
Before making a toast, it is also customary to look around the table to ensure that all participants have their libation of choice raised before beginning their toast. When attending an event with a group setting, such as a Christmas meal or picnic outing, express gratitude for the gathering before starting said meal or with a toast. It is also not uncommon to hear the phrase “Por los amigos que estamos presentes y los que no estan pero aquí en el pensamiento” (For the friends here present and those who are not present but remembered in our thoughts). This acknowledgment acknowledges those absent but remembered during this moment.
Use of Utensils
If you are invited to a dinner in Argentina, it is important to understand the use of utensils. The four-course meals that are commonly served begin with soup and appetizers, followed by meat and vegetables as the main course. It is usually complemented with a salad and dessert.
In most cases, guests will be served three utensils – a fork on the left side of the plate and a large spoon next to it. A knife may also be present on the right side of the dish. Unless otherwise instructed, diners are expected to eat from left to right, never crossing utensils when transitioning from one course to another. Keeping your hands off the table during dinner also applies here; elbows should always remain below!
When dining at someone’s home in Argentina or attending restaurant events or parties, there may be instances when diners are allowed to put their hands under the plate or keep them on top. In this case, guests are expected to hold their hands together above their place setting to avoid disturbing other diners around them. Napkins should also be used throughout dinner and straightened after each use so they appear neat and organized on each other while placed over your lap while seated.
Gift Giving
Giving gifts is an essential part of Argentinian cultural customs and etiquette. When giving a gift, it is important to be generous and thoughtful. It is considered polite to give gifts that are of good quality and reflects your thoughtfulness. Remember that Argentinians tend to be more modest regarding gift-giving and to receive.
Certain gifts are better to avoid when giving a gift to someone in Argentina:
Appropriate Gifts
When visiting Argentina or giving a gift to an Argentine, it is important to be mindful of the culture. Giving gifts is an important part of social etiquette in Argentina and should not be overlooked. Here are some general guidelines for appropriate gifts when visiting Argentina:
- Bring a gift such as flowers, wine, or chocolates if invited to a home for a meal. Flowers should always be given in multiples of odd numbers; avoid presenting twelve flowers, as the number twelve is associated with death in Argentina.
- When attending happy celebrations such as birthdays and weddings, bring small items that are easy to carry, such as liquor, chocolates, or perfumes.
- If attending funerals, do not bring any presents; instead, show respect by sending sympathy cards with words of consolation.
- Avoid giving knives and scissors as they imply severing relationships; if you have to give something related to cutting objects, opt for cake servers instead or other related kitchen accessories.
- Do not give expensive items unless you know your host well; giving large and expensive presents could look like showing off and putting them in an awkward position.
- Corporate gifts should be practical but stylish (think bags, coffee cups) with the company’s logo prominently displayed.
Gift Wrapping
Gift wrapping is part of the presentation when giving a gift in Argentina. Therefore, it’s important to put some thought and time into selecting the right type of wrapping paper and embellishments. While gift wrapping can be fun and creative, it’s important to follow traditional Moroccan etiquette guidelines to ensure the gift is presented correctly.
The color of wrapping paper should be chosen with care, neither too light nor too dark. In general, muted colors are preferred to loud patterns or strong colors as they can be seen as too bold by some. White is associated with sadness in Morocco. In contrast, black is associated with funerals, so these hues are not recommended when giving gifts.
Adorning the package with elaborate decorations like glitter and ribbons is always appropriate and adds a special touch that will not go unnoticed. Decorations should be coordinated to match the occasion or gift recipient if possible. Try adding items such as lace, craft paper, printed paper, tissue paper, or simple stamps for unique effects; however, avoid including mainly commercial-grade decorations like stickers on a formal gift.
Adding a small handwritten note inside a folded piece of scrapbooking paper also adds an air of personalization that can help identify who sent the package and an extra warm touch that often enhances the experience surrounding gift-giving in Argentina.
Receiving Gifts
In Argentina, it is customary for gifts to be opened when received. In some cases, however, the recipient will express his/her appreciation without opening the package in front of the giver. Typically, when receiving a gift from someone who is not a close friend or relative, such as an acquaintance or neighbor, that person will show their appreciation through verbal acknowledgment rather than by opening the gift in front of them.
When someone gives you a gift in Argentina, it is polite to thank them by saying “Gracias” (meaning ‘thank you’ in Spanish) and offering something small such as a token of appreciation, like flowers or chocolates. This practice is known as ‘regalo recíproco,’ which means ‘reciprocal giving’ and is seen as an act of courtesy and respect towards both parties.
Additionally, when giving or receiving gifts, avoid using one’s left hand and never give or accept items with a left hand only. In Argentina, collecting gifts always begins with anyone who is younger and then moves to the older recipients only after they have received theirs! Although exceptions vary depending on particular events and relationships between individuals, this custom should generally be followed when sharing presents among various groups that contain both age-diverse members. Finally, displays of affection among friends are typically limited to gestures like hugs; more intimate contact should be avoided until a couple becomes serious within their relationship dynamics.
Dress Code
The dress code in Argentina is usually conservative, despite the hot weather. Men usually wear suits, while women opt for a more formal look with dresses or skirts. It is important to be aware of when it is appropriate to be more formal and when it is more appropriate to dress casually. Clothing should be reasonable, neat, and clean but not overly flashy.
On formal occasions, men are expected to wear a suit and tie, while women should wear a dress or skirt.
Clothing
When deciding what to wear in Argentina, it is important to know that customs vary between regions. Generally, Argentinians dress quite conservatively, which is especially true for business attire.
In more rural areas, such as the provinces of Salta and Jujuy, bright colors and warm clothes is the norm; people often wear scarves or shawls, which reflect the country’s Amerindian roots.
People tend to dress more formally in urban areas, including Buenos Aires and other large Argentine cities. Men should wear a shirt or polo with a sports jacket. Women should choose smart clothes such as skirts or jeans with button-down shirts or slacks. Smart footwear is always a good idea when visiting Argentina; open-toe shoes are rarely appropriate for any occasion other than going to the beach. It is also important to note that shorts are generally not well-received in informal settings such as restaurants.
Argentina is a very fashionable place, so be prepared to fit in and reflect your personality; above all else— strive for neatness and respect!
Shoes
In Argentina, the type of shoe you wear tells a lot about who you are and is an indicator of what kind of social status you have. Generally, those with wealth or higher positions wear dressier shoes such as oxfords, loafers, or even stilettos. Additionally, dresses and other formal occasions typically require men to wear black leather dress shoes and women to wear high heels.
In more casual situations, it is also important to know what shoes are appropriate. For men, loafers or moccasins are considered comfortable, while women can opt for stylish sandals or knee-high boots. Tennis shoes are typically worn during activities such as sports or gym sessions but not in public places like restaurants or clubs.
No matter your social status or the occasion on which you find yourself, be sure to select the proper footwear to avoid giving an inappropriate first impression.
Accessories
The correct selection and use of accessories are essential elements of overall style when dressing for any occasion. Generally speaking, Argentinians stick typically to subtle colors and light materials for their accessories.
Jewelry: For both genders, the jewelry should be kept relatively discreet, with conservative colors and styles being favored. Argentinian men usually wear wedding rings only; any other visible jewelry is generally minimal – such as a watch or cuff links – and is typically silver or gold in color. Women do typically accessorize more, although still discretely. Silver, gold, and pearls are common materials worn in necklaces, earrings, and bracelets.
Hats: Hats are a practical accessory used to shield from the sun on hot days and for added warmth in winter weather in Argentina. Famous headwear for men is fedoras or panama hats, paired with dark sunglasses in summer months. However, women often favor wide-brimmed sunhats across all seasons.
Scarves: Scarves can be worn by both genders as a stylish interpretation of practicality, especially when traveling due to Argentina’s divergent weathers regions like Patagonia to Buenos Aires barrios where climates vary widely within small distances through the Argentine Provinces year-round as well. Summer scarves may be lightweight cotton to protect from UV rays, while winter wraps may provide additional warmth with thicker materials such as wool or cashmere.