Greeting
Greetings are the most critical Cuban customs to know when visiting Cuba. Greetings are usually long and elaborate and involve a lot of touching. For example, when greeting a friend, you should give a big hug and kiss on the cheek or a firm handshake or pat on the back.
When meeting someone for the first time, you should use formal titles such as Señor or Señora until invited to do otherwise.
Handshake
When meeting someone, it is customary to shake hands in Cuba. Using one or two hands while shaking is acceptable, and the handshake should be firm and confident.
The custom of greeting with a kiss on both cheeks is also common among people who know each other, especially women. This practice varies based on age and familiarity, however.
Maintaining sound eye contact while shaking hands and during the conversation is also important. Cuban culture values eye contact as a sign of respect, warmth, and trustworthiness. Moreover, it is considered impolite to interlock fingers during a handshake due to the perceived expression of power or superiority. Instead, it’s best for both parties to keep their palms open, facing each other with a natural grip pressure as they shake hands.
Kissing
Kissing, or beso in Spanish, is the most common greeting among Cubans. When two opposite genders meet, the greeting generally consists of a kiss on alternating cheeks. Generally, kisses are given on both cheeks and with some vocalization of affection, like a murmured “hola” or phrase such as “Con mucho cariño.” (“With lots of love.“). The gesture implies a greater closeness and level of trust; those you know more informally may offer fewer kisses than those you have known for longer.
Same-sex greetings often involve hugs rather than kisses; friends will embrace each other warmly upon meeting. But, generally, keep physical contact to a minimum when greeting someone new; even an enthusiastic handshake can be inconsiderate if it is seen as too forward!
Greetings commonly include:
- Asking about one another’s families
- Expressing best wishes to one another
An opportunity to ensure that everyone can connect through shared connections and appreciation.
Titles
An essential facet of Cuban culture is using titles when addressing someone. As a general rule, using the title of ‘Dr.’ or ‘Ing.’ is more acceptable than calling someone by their surname unless invited to do otherwise. Formal titles are used to address elders and strangers instead of using a first name. If you don’t know the name or title of someone you’re introducing yourself to for the first time, it’s best to use ‘usted.’
When introducing people with different titles or professions, it’s polite to give the most senior person the privilege of being mentioned first. Titles should always be used when referring to essential personalities such as teachers and priests. Most official papers require written acknowledgments that include an individual’s proper title indicating rank and position in society or occupation.
The most widely used titles in Cuba are:
- Doctor (Dr.)
- Engineer (Ing.)
- Attorney at law (Lic.)
- Professor (Prof.)
- Architect (Arq.)
Other standard titles among university graduates include:
- Economists (Econ.)
- Psychologists (Psic.)
- Scientists (Cient.)
Additionally, military ranks are an honored formality in Cuba, but their use is typically restricted to officers within military circles only.
Respectful Behavior
Respect and politeness are critical values in Cuban culture, and visitors should be mindful of this. When engaging with someone, speak to them with deference, politeness, and respect. People in Cuba are very hospitable and welcoming, and a smile is a great way to establish a connection. Awareness and respect for their customs and traditions should make your stay in Cuba much easier and more enjoyable.
Dress Appropriately
In Cuba, it is important to dress respectfully. Shorts and tank tops should be avoided outside the beach or resort areas, as citizens value modesty in public settings. In addition, women should ensure that clothing is not revealing and that skirts and dresses are of an appropriate length.
In cities such as Havana or Santiago de Cuba, it is recommended to stick to smart-casual attire, like collared shirts and long trousers for men or skirt suits or sun dresses for women. However, when attending traditional dinners in Cuban homes, visitors should always wear comfortable clothing – Cuban fashion includes many vibrant colors which visitors can incorporate into their wardrobe!
The Cuban people appreciate when visitors dress modestly out of respect for their community customs. Likewise, locals may enjoy a nice gesture to don clothing featuring Cuban flags or other iconic landmarks as an expression of admiration (though arriving in said attire may draw unwanted attention).
Avoid Public Displays of Affection
Cubans generally view public displays of affection as inappropriate. It is seen as disrespectful to embrace, kiss, or hold hands in public. Even between married couples, it is more appropriate to show physical affection in private than in public spaces.
In general, relationships between people in Cuba are respectful. Even amongst strangers, a sense of politeness and courtesy should be adhered to; a community code of respect and obligation governs interactions across all levels of society. People expect others to be gracious and thoughtful in their interactions – raised voices or displays of aggression should be avoided at all times.
Gestures such as
- pointing towards the floor
- shaking one’s head ‘no’
- or indicating something with their eyes
They are commonplace and serve as a substitute for words during conversations. However, it can confuse visitors, who may misinterpret it for rudeness.
When engaging with the Cuban people, it is important not to make assumptions based on one’s cultural sensibilities but instead learn from the locals and adapt politely to the applicable customs and etiquette practiced within the cultural environment.
Respect Religious Beliefs
In Cuba, the majority of people adhere to the religious beliefs of Christianity or Santeria (a blend of Catholicism and their West African Yoruba belief system). Religion plays a significant role in Cuban culture, so it’s important to demonstrate respect when discussing religious issues.
Talking negatively about any religion is seen as very rude and can offend. Therefore, it is best to avoid offensive remarks or jokes that could be interpreted as such. Instead, be respectful by studying customs and understanding the importance placed on religion in Cuba before traveling. Asking questions about her religion shows a genuine interest in her culture which will go a long way in earning respect from your Cuban counterpart or host.
Non-religious customs here also deserve respect from tourists traveling to Cuba. Typical greetings include verbal greetings such as “Buen día” (Good day)and physical interactions such as embracing upon meeting and departing from one another – a gesture that goes beyond conversations but reflects the Cuban attitude towards hospitality, compassion, and fellowship towards each other and strangers alike.
Conversation
Conversations in Cuba are generally very relaxed but polite. It’s important to remember that a formal tone may be expected in certain situations, such as when meeting someone for the first time. Topics of conversation should generally stay away from politics and religion.
When joining a conversation, it’s polite to wait for a pause before joining in or for someone to invite you in. However, it’s also important to be aware of body language, such as avoiding eye contact or crossing your arms, as this may be seen as rude.
Avoid Controversial Topics
In Cuba, conversations must be carefully navigated to avoid contentious topics such as the Cuban revolution and the current US embargo. Interactions between locals and US citizens are viewed with suspicion because of American government policies, so it’s best to avoid politics to keep conversations positive.
Cuba is a proud nation, and many Cubans take great pride in their culture, so it’s best to steer clear of sensitive topics, particularly those associated with human rights and freedom of speech. In addition, taboos around religion should be honored. Though most Cubans identify as Christian or Afro-Cuban faiths like Santeria, discussing spiritual beliefs is a personal matter that should not be taken lightly.
It’s also important to observe Cuban traditions when conversing with locals. While they may speak English fairly well, demonstrating an understanding of Cuba by expressing familiarity with Cuban grammar or speaking Spanish can help foster better relationships. Additionally, interest in everyday Cuban culture will show respect and admiration for local customs and help establish friendships quickly.
Speak Slowly and Clearly
When speaking with an individual in Cuba, it is important to be aware of the cultural customs that may not be shared with your own culture. It is essential to respect the Cuban culture and its natives. One way to do this is by speaking slowly and clearly when conversing with someone from this country. By speaking slower, you will ensure that the other person has ample time and opportunity to understand you and reply in kind.
You should monitor the other person’s reaction as much as possible while talking, as this can provide insight into whether they understand your words and enjoy their conversation with you. Furthermore, it’s a good practice to strive for a low-pitched conversational tone; hard consonants can come across as off-putting or aggressive, which could make them feel disrespected without ever realizing it was a matter of language tonality.
Use Respectful Language
When conversing with locals in Cuba, be sure to use respectful language and avoid using slang or colloquial terms. Respect for elders is paramount in Cuban culture, and the elderly must be treated with courtesy and admiration. Although Spanish is the officially recognized language of Cuba, many people also speak French and English.
In Cuban culture, it is considered rude to criticize anyone’s ideas; instead of disagreeing loudly or contradicting them, one should politely express dissent through silent nods or minor remarks at the end of a conversation. Maintaining eye contact while communicating is also important as it shows respect and interest in the speaker. Cubans are always open to discussing their culture, customs, and beliefs as long as they are approached respectfully.
Cubans like to stay connected with friends by exchanging views on events around them; however, they do not think it polite if someone enters into a conversation uninvited. Asking questions on history or current events can help spark a discussion with the locals but make sure you respect their opinions without too much probing, even if you disagree along political lines.
Dining Etiquette
Dining etiquette in Cuba is generally the same as in the United States. Some minor differences may exist depending on the region, but the basics remain typically the same. When dining in Cuba, it is crucial to be aware of the local customs and etiquette.
This guide will provide an overview of Cuban dining customs and etiquette, including:
- Table manners
- Dress code
- Dining etiquette
Read on to learn more about how to enjoy a meal in Cuba.
Wait to be Seated
When dining at a restaurant in Cuba, it’s customary to wait to be seated by the maître d’hotel or host. Picking out your seat is considered inappropriate. Instead, the meal is usually served with a few side dishes, such as garlic pork or black beans, and then diners choose one of the main dishes. There will be several dishes in the center of the table that everyone shares, and food may be passed around family style. Cubans are quite hospitable, so don’t expect to have everything served on your plate right away.
The most important etiquette to remember when dining at a restaurant in Cuba is to nosh slowly – Cubans typically take longer than visitors when eating their meals. Furthermore, eating before everyone else has been served their meal is considered impolite. When you are finished with your meal, you should say “gracias” (thank you) and put your silverware on either side of the plate with the tines facing up and knife facing left – this will signal that you are done eating. If something isn’t to your liking, it is best not to send it back; however, talk to your server about what did not meet expectations, so appropriate action can be taken for future meals for other diners.
Don’t Start Eating Until the Host Does
In Cuba, good dining etiquette should be practiced during gatherings with family and friends. Although some variations might be based on region, most Cubans share a few rules. As a guest in someone’s house or when invited to a social gathering, it’s important to follow these customs to avoid embarrassing moments or hurt feelings.
When dining at someone’s home in Cuba, it’s best to follow simple rules, such as arriving on time, dressing appropriately, and arriving with gifts or flowers for the hostess. When sitting down for dinner with others, wait for the gathering host to start eating before starting your meal. It is considered disrespectful if you start eating before the host does. Small discussions usually occur once everyone is seated at the table and has begun eating; conversations are always kept light and friendly. Topics such as politics and religion can make the atmosphere tense and uncomfortable, so they should be avoided at all costs.
At family meals, Cuban culture dictates that all diners should help with setting and cleaning up after meals which helps foster a sense of community and collectivity and is often seen as one of the favorite parts of family gatherings in Cuba! Finally, when guests are served an alcoholic beverage, they toast by raising their glasses and bringing them closer together, expressing respect and gratitude between guests while having meaningful conversations filled with laughter during gatherings.
Don’t Leave Food on Your Plate
In Cuba, it is considered an insult when someone does not finish the food on their plate. This custom indicates to the host that the guest did not enjoy the meal or was not satisfied with its quantity. Thus, it is important to handle this situation delicately and politely.
It is best to consume all served on the plate and politely explain why you cannot do so if this is difficult. For example, you could express appreciation for the host’s generosity while noting that you are full at this time, but much enjoyed their cooking. Leaving some food on your plate may even be a compliment as it implies that there was so much food served that you could not finish everything!
Remember always to show appreciation: expressing gratitude for a meal is always seen as polite in Cuban culture, and particular compliments about a dish or the chef can make for an unforgettable Cuban dining experience!
Gift Giving
Gift-giving is a significant part of Cuban culture and can be used to express appreciation, show respect and demonstrate friendship. Gifts are given for any occasion, from birthdays to holidays. Understanding Cuba’s cultural customs and etiquette will help you choose the most appropriate gift for your situation.
Let’s take a look at the unwritten rules of Cuban gift-giving:
Don’t Give Anything Made of Leather
When giving a gift in Cuba, you should be non-controversial and safe by not giving anything made of leather, which is a sign of disrespect in Cuban culture. Likewise, anything that could potentially raise the ire of authorities or be perceived as political should also be avoided. Instead, give something tasteful and appropriate, like books, music CDs, flowers, or art items. It is also appreciated if the gift reflects a souvenir from the country you visit.
Other things to take into consideration when giving gifts in Cuba include avoiding overly expensive items – eight times more expensive than usual rates – as this can make people uncomfortable; gifts should not be wrapped very elaborately; or handed to someone of authority such as a police officer that may do more harm than good. Additionally, give gifts with useful value instead of luxury items, for they should serve practical purposes for the receiver.
Examples of some ideal gifts include:
- Food groups such as processed foods (canned spaghetti), cooking oil, and seasoning;
- Medicines, especially those not available in Cuba;
- Sanitary products such as diapers, soap, and toothbrushes;
- Toys for children, including school supplies such as pen & paper sets.
Gifts that help alleviate scarcity issues are always greatly appreciated!
Avoid Giving Anything Expensive
Gift-giving is an important part of Cuban culture. Although expensive gifts are appreciated, it is always wise to keep gift-giving within reasonable limits. Gifts should not be too extravagant, which could make the recipient feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.
If you donate items from your home country, consider giving practical things such as clothing, small electronics, or souvenirs such as art prints or books.
Avoid giving anything expensive, such as jewelry, cars, or large appliances, unless the recipient indicates they would like a more expensive present. Such gifts could be perceived impolitely and even cause discomfort for the recipient and their family. Furthermore, too many costly presents could also suggest personal gain on your part, which may leave a negative impression in the eyes of your friend from Cuba.
Don’t Give Anything that Suggests Money or Success
When giving gifts in Cuba, the recipient will be grateful for whatever is received, although particular items are traditionally associated with celebrating a special occasion. There are also customs to be aware of that you may not normally follow when it comes to gift-giving.
In Cuban culture, one should not give anything that calls attention to wealth or success. Therefore items such as watches, necklaces, or other jewelry should be avoided as gifts unless it comes from a close family member or friend. It’s also best to avoid any gift of perceived higher quality than what most people can afford in Cuba; therefore, many visitors may opt for traditional Cuban foodstuffs and drinks instead.
- Sweet beverages like Floridita Daiquiris and locally made spirits like Santiago de Cuba Ron Clásico will bring smiles all around!
- Fruits, cigars, and coffee are great gifts if they can be transported safely across borders.
Keep in mind that if you’re visiting a household outside the city limits, simple offerings such as soap, toothbrushes, and other toiletries may be even more appreciated since these items may be hard for country dwellers to come by due to their remote location and limited transportation options. In addition, gift-giving is considered thoughtful etiquette when visiting a Cuban home, so don’t forget to bring something with you when invited.