Greetings
Greeting someone in Ireland is an essential part of Irish culture and etiquette. Introductions are often made with a firm handshake, direct eye contact, and a smile. It is considered polite to use the person’s name during the introduction.
When meeting family and friends, men may give a hug, and women may exchange kisses on the cheek.
Common Forms of Greeting
Greetings are essential to show respect and courtesy when meeting someone new in Ireland. Typical forms of greeting involve shaking hands, although it is not always necessary. Eye contact is also essential, so you are expected to make and maintain eye contact with the other person when greeting them.
In some more traditional households, a brief bow or curtsy towards the oldest person present may occur. In more rural areas, people often exchange the ‘greeting hug,’ where you hug briefly with both arms wrapped around the other person’s neck or shoulders as a sign of friendship.
The most common form of verbal greeting is “Hello” or its Gaelic translation, which means “Good morning” or “Good afternoon,” depending on the time of day. Informal greetings such as “Hi!” are not used in Ireland – saying “Hello” will be enough to make a good impression. Other phrases like “Good day” and “Fine day” may also be used depending on the context. Generally, people will use their first name when introducing themselves, so it would be polite to do the same when you meet them for the first time.
Appropriate Physical Contact
Appropriate physical contact reflects the importance of respecting boundaries and speaking with actions and words. In Ireland, physical contact is not a standard part of the conversation and should be avoided unless initiated by the other person. Casual touching or shaking hands is acceptable when greeting and saying goodbye, though hugging while saying hello or farewell is highly discouraged in Ireland.
The Irish tend to maintain a certain degree of formality in their interactions with others, at least until they become more comfortable. For example, to show respect for someone’s personal space, it is best to avoid hugs until after several meetings; even then, hugging is often reserved for close friends.
Language
The official language of Ireland is Irish (sometimes called Irish Gaelic or Gaeilge). While it is not the primary spoken language throughout the country, it is still a required subject in all schools and is the language of culture and national identity. However, English is the main language used in day-to-day business and most publications.
Understanding at least some Irish or the basics of the culture can go a long way in creating a positive impression, so it’s worth taking some time to look into it.
Common Language Spoken
The primary language in the Republic of Ireland is Irish (Gaeilge). Irish is a Celtic language closely related to Scottish, Manx Gaelic, Welsh, Breton, and Cornish. While English is widely used, it is interesting to note that only about 28% – 46% of the population speak Irish fluently.
The Irish have grown more accepting of other tongues since accession to the EU in 1973. Today many other languages are commonplace, including French, German, Spanish and Polish. Businesses tend to use English as the working language; however, many common phrases are now becoming engrained in the daily conversations of the Irish people.
In recent years there has been an increase in overseas visitors who want to learn common phrases to communicate easily with locals. Plenty of websites are dedicated to helping travelers learn basic phrases so they can communicate more effectively and make connections during their stay in Ireland.
Appropriate Language to Use
The official languages used in Ireland are English and Irish. While English is the most spoken language, less than 30% of the population are native speakers of Irish. It can be challenging to know precisely when to use Irish and when to use English, but some generally accepted guidelines should be followed.
When speaking with a local, it is best to begin using English, although if the person you are speaking with is comfortable switching back and forth between languages, then by all means, do so. Many people in rural areas will be more comfortable with Irish Gaelic. Although not expected among visitors, knowing a few words before we start will make you appear more knowledgeable about their culture and earn respect from locals.
It is also important to show respect for those who speak only one language (Irish or English) by not making fun of their accent or correcting them when they switch from one language to another while communicating. It can be seen as rude and can cause unnecessary embarrassment or discomfort.
If you are traveling outside urban areas, it would be wise to learn a few words in both languages, whether that’s simple greetings or asking for directions; this will give locals an indication that you are interested in learning about their culture and customs, which will make your trip much more enjoyable!
Customs
Ireland has a rich culture and heritage, and this is reflected in its customs and etiquette. Generally, the Irish are known for being friendly and welcoming, and it is important to remember to be respectful when encountering customs that may be unfamiliar to you.
Greetings are essential, and you should be sure to greet people with “Good morning,” “Good afternoon,” or “Good evening” as appropriate. It is also necessary to dress modestly, especially if you are visiting a sacred or religious site. Understanding Ireland’s customs can help you have a wonderful and memorable experience while visiting.
Common Customs and Traditions
Ireland is deeply rooted in its cultural and traditional customs, and visitors to the country should be aware of certain important guidelines concerning etiquette. Regardless of your experience with other cultures, it is best to take the time to learn some of Ireland’s customs and etiquette before visiting. Several of the commonly observed customs in Ireland include:
- Greetings: Greeting someone with a kiss on the cheek is very common when meeting someone for the first time, even if they are not friends. Handshakes are appropriate if one does not feel comfortable performing this gesture.
- Attending Churches: It is expected that appropriate clothing is worn, including head coverings when attending churches or religious sites, and being quiet while you are inside.
- Drinking Alcohol: Drinking alcohol has been a traditional part of Irish society for many years; however, it should be consumed responsibly and peacefully. Public drunkenness or aggressive behavior will never be tolerated by locals nor acceptable guests in peace within the Irish culture.
- Eating Out: Tips for meals are welcomed but not expected at most restaurants or pubs; these may range from 10-15% depending upon service level, with 15% being reserved for exceptional service quality or professional tour guides.
- Tipping: Tips are typically given at hotels only if services have been above normal standards; otherwise, hotel tips usually range between 2-5 euros per bag per person). At pubs, it is reasonable to leave spare change behind after payment has been completed if one feels content with the beverage delivered against the payment charged.
- Street Traffic: Parking regulations must be strongly obeyed at all times within Ireland to avoid receiving a fine; this includes paying attention to monthly or annual street cleaning periods which could result in an issue on your behalf otherwise ignored by visitors unaware that such signs exist throughout streets inhabited densely within cities and villages alike throughout Ireland.
Important Religious Holidays
Like many countries worldwide, Ireland has religious holidays that are widely celebrated. Important religious holidays include Christmas Day (December 25th), St. Patrick’s Day (March 17th), Pentecost (May 31st), and All Souls’ Day (November 1st). Each of these holidays plays an important role in Ireland’s culture and heritage and is still widely celebrated today.
Christmas is one of the most important holidays in Ireland, as it is in many other countries around the world. On December 25th, Irish people gather with their families to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ. Homes are often decorated with a Christmas tree; gifts are exchanged; meals are shared, and people dress up for church services or attend midnight mass.
St Patrick’s Day is a significant national holiday held every year on March 17th. Traditionally it has been seen as a day to honor Saint Patrick of Ireland, the country’s patron saint; however, today, it is seen more as a celebration of Irish culture and heritage. People often wear green clothes to represent their national pride and join together for parades or other festivities throughout the day to show appreciation for what makes them “Irish.”
Pentecost, also known as Whitsun, celebrates the descent of the Holy Spirit upon Jesus’ disciples nearly two thousand years ago, according to Christian stories. It’s celebrated on the seventh Sunday after April 16th each year, with special services held across Ireland. It can also be referred to as Whit Sunday or Whitsunday.
All Souls’ Day takes place on November 1st each year. This holiday remembers those past loved ones who have passed away. Catholic tradition suggests that souls still linger between Heaven and Earth, so All Souls’ Day provides solace for those feeling bereaved. Gifts such as flowers, wreaths, or money often accompany these remembrances.
Dining Etiquette
One of the most important aspects of Irish culture is dining etiquette. Dining etiquette in Ireland is relatively formal, and you should take the time to learn some of the customs before heading to your first dinner in Ireland. It is important to remember that proper etiquette during meals is the best way to show your respect to the host and to ensure a pleasant experience.
In this article, we will discuss the basic dining etiquette in Ireland that you should be aware of:
Table Manners
The Irish generally have particular table manners sticking closely to ‘formal etiquette’. Generally speaking, they tend to adhere closely to formal customs and demonstrate good manners, politeness, and respect. Table etiquette in Ireland is based on traditional British table manners, although some additional rules and nuances exist.
If you are having a meal with a local family in Ireland, you should try your best to follow their expectations regarding table manners. Below we explain what you need to know about dining etiquette in Ireland:
- Table Manners:
- Wait for the host or oldest family members to take their seats before sitting at the table.
- When indicating that you would like something, politely request it using phrases such as “would you be so kind as…” or “I’d love…” instead of simply saying “can I get…” or “I want….”
- Use utensils correctly – knives should remain on the right side of the plate and forks on the left side (this is known as ‘the continental style’).
- While eating soup, tilt your spoon away from yourself when taking each sip (as opposed to towards yourself). Never blow on it, either!
- Start eating when others start or after the host has invited everyone to do so by saying “please”.
- Keep your elbows off of the table at all times during a meal.
- Don’t make too much noise while eating – avoid slurping, burping, or smacking your lips whenever possible!
- Take small portions when serving yourself from shared dishes; any subsequent servings can be bigger if desired.
- When finishing your meal, place your knife and fork across each other on the plate parallel to each other; this indicates that you have finished eating.
Appropriate Dress Code
Irrespective of the casual atmosphere in many Irish restaurants, there is still an expectation for diners to dress appropriately. Smart casual is generally considered acceptable attire, and guests should aim to look presentable. Formal wear is rarely expected, although more traditional restaurants may request that gentlemen wear a jacket and tie and ladies a smart dress or skirt.
Generally, though, the type of clothing worn should be governed by the occasion, season, and weather. If you are going out to a more expensive restaurant on special events, then wearing something smarter with polished footwear (closed-toe shoes or boots) may help avoid any misunderstanding about expectations for the dress code in Ireland.
Gift Giving
When giving a gift in Ireland, there are a few things to keep in mind to maintain appropriate etiquette. For example, it is important never to give an even number of gifts as it is considered bad luck. It is also essential to not give anything extravagant as it can come off as improper. Instead, giving something useful or symbolic, like a painting or book, is appropriate.
Finally, it is customary to include a card or small note with the gift to include your well-wishes.
Appropriate Gifts
Gift-giving is very much a part of Irish culture. Whether it’s a birthday, an anniversary, or a wedding, selecting the right gift for an Irish occasion demands that you understand what is expected and acceptable.
Regarding gifts for an Irish guest or host, some staples are popular and appreciated. Popular gift items include food items such as cheese and preserve from Irish producers, whiskey, and curiosities from the local region. In addition, items such as tea towels with Celtic designs, music CDs featuring traditional Irish tunes, coffee mugs with Shamrock designs, or jewelry made with Celtic knot work are also excellent choices.
Business associates may wish to give practical items like office supplies, stationery, or gift vouchers. Since traditional pubs in Ireland remain alive socially and historically, they make amusing gifts to bring back home. Personalized football jerseys or gear are perfect gifts for someone who loves sports – especially Gaelic Football!
Although cash is acceptable if you want to give something aside from money, customized items such as handmade linens are quite symbolic presents to remember! Above all else, remember no matter what your gift choice will be – the thought counts the most!
Gift Giving Customs
Gift-giving is an important part of Irish culture. It’s a sign of appreciation when people share a token of their thanks or affection upon meeting or as a gesture of friendship. Depending on the occasion, gifts may be exchanged to celebrate events, mark holidays, or show gratitude and respect. Knowing the customs surrounding gift-giving in Ireland can help ensure that you give and receive gifts with the appropriate formality and etiquette.
On birthdays and special occasions, it’s common to give small tokens such as chocolates, gift baskets, flowers, plants, or alcohol – be sure your recipient is old enough to accept it! For more formal occasions like job interviews, anniversaries, or special thank-you gifts for friends’ favors, you could opt for nicer items like jewelry or crystal. If you know your recipient’s favored interests, you can tailor the gift accordingly.
When attending Irish weddings, it’s considered polite to give a gift from a wedding list if one was provided – if not, you can go with something general such as crystal glassware or work with one of the family members (often siblings) to get an idea of what they need help getting started since newly-weds often have few household items. It’s also a kind gesture to provide monetary donations instead of presents which may be donated towards honeymoon costs.
It is also customary amongst many overseas Irish families to send gifts back home whenever they visit, either during vacations/holidays or when returning after significant absences abroad (e.g., studying). This custom comes from Irish emigrants who left Ireland many years ago and still keep up with loved ones by providing annual tokens – like miniature statues depicting traditional Irish folklore characters so loved by locals who take great pleasure in receiving them year after year. Gifts don’t have to be expensive but should always be thoughtful so that the giver demonstrates how sincerely they appreciate those near and dear back home in Ireland!